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Drim Relationship Patterns
How to improve personal relationships and synergy dramatically.
Drim Relationship Patterns
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Context (If you're new to Drim)
A quick overview of the dramatic improvement concept and framework.
Context (If you're new to Drim)
- Dramatic improvement (Drim) is the discipline of deliberately and systematically improving challenging situations dramatically.
- Drim is always feasible - the more challenging the situation, the greater the improvement potential.
- The secret is to use common repeating drim patterns to find the drim solutions hidden within challenging situations.
- This section provides some of those drim solution patterns in some of the most common arenas.
Basic Drim Relationship Pattern Concepts
How to deliberately and systematically forge synergy from dysergy and antergy.
Basic Drim Relationship Pattern Concepts
- Relationship is about the mutual satisfaction of respective and shared needs and aspirations.
- The type, nature and depth of the relationship is determined by:
- The nature of the respective and shared needs and abilities
- The nature and level of respective skills, abilities and gifting and
- The levels of mutual respect, commitment and communication and
- The respective abilities to resolve mistakes, miscommunication amd misunderstandings that are sure to arise.
- We need to be relatable, good at creating synergy and good at dealing with difficult people.
A simple set of dramatic improvement patterns and techniques for forging synergy (2 + 2 =5 ) from dysergy (2 + 2 = 4) and antergy (2 + 2 = 3).
The opportunities for synergy - even in personal task-management, never mind in our interaction with other people and between product and service features - are immense: but we seldom see them.
There's a good reason for this and a simple way to overcome it.
How To Be Easy To Get On With
Basic prerequisites for being someone that's attractive to be and work with.
How To Be Easy To Get On With
- Hygiene
- Appearance
- Mindset
- Respect
- Empathy
- Civility
- Generosity
How To Get On With Easy People
How to establish rapport and synergy.
How To Get On With Easy People
- Rapport
- Synergy
- Meeing people where they're at
- Conflict Resolution
- FAE: LUR
- Deliberate Synergy
- Reciprocity
- Family Cultures
How To Get On With Difficult People
How to establish rapport and synergy with difficult people.
How To Get On With Difficult People
- Narcissist
- Psychopath
- Bully
- Know-It-All
- Militant Ignoramus
- Manipulator
- Gaslighting
- https://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2016/06/20-diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you/4/
Golden Assumption
A way of overcoming Fundamental Attribution Error.
Golden Assumption
Recognise that most interpersonal conflict and disagreement arises from misalignment, miscommunication, misconstruing, misinterpreting and mistakes and instead of assuming mal-intent, assume that the other person wants what you want and that it only seesm unreasonable, because you don't understand where they're coming from.
Xplor
A way of securing alignment - especially in adversarial situations.
Xplor
Instead of using open or closed questions, Xplor uses multiple-choice questions, with the option for the interviewee to add their own option or indicate that it's none of the proffered options.
Asking multiple choice plus add your own option questions - and then playing back their own words and repeating the cycle until they agree with the wording - before translating into my own words, brings me to understand their position to both of our satisfaction - before repeating the process for my position.
WWMMDT
A way of overcoming the Fundamental Attribution Error
WWMMDT
The Fundamental Attribution Error - attributing motive, intent and inferiority to other people's bad behaviour, but circumstances to our own - is one of the biggest and most damaging cognitive biases we face.
WWMMDT ("Wimditty") is an acronym to remind us to ask, "What would make me do that?" - if I was being reasonable and decent.
It's astounding how often, we find that those same extreme conditions that would bring us to behave sub-optimally, exist in their situation.
Appropriate Response
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Appropriate Response
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Personal Drim Foundation Solutions
Dramatic improvement in physical, emoptional and mental health and performance.
Personal Drim Foundation Solutions
A set of simple solutions for diagnosing and intervening in crucial foundational areas that we often neglect to nurture.
Not only does this neglect hold us back, but investing in improving these elements dramatically lifts our game to far greater heights - automatically.
Target as many of these that appeal to you, as you like. Improving any of them will make it easier to improve the others.
Context (If you're new to Drim)
A quick overview of the dramatic improvement concept and framework.
Context (If you're new to Drim)
- Dramatic improvement (Drim) is the discipline of deliberately and systematically improving challenging situations dramatically.
- Drim is always feasible - the more challenging the situation, the greater the improvement potential.
- The secret is to use common repeating drim patterns to find the drim solutions hidden within challenging situations.
- This section provides some of those drim solution patterns in some of the most common arenas.
Checklists
Personal Physiology Checklist
Things to check and address for optimum mental and physical performance.
Personal Physiology Checklist
Peak human mental and physical performance requires:
- Oxygen.
- Sleep.
- Circulation.
- Hydration.
- Nutrition.
- Exercise.
- Comfort.
- Wellness.
Mindsets & Attitudes Checklist
Things to check and address.
Mindsets & Attitudes Checklist
- Deliberate Composure
- Determination & Tenacity
- Resourcefulness
- Optimism
- Confidence
- Enthusiasm
- Proactivity
- Open-Mindedness
Personal Understanding Checklist
How to overcome an unreliable brain.
Personal Understanding Checklist
Common Failure Modes of Human Understanding - and how to overcome them.
- Cognitive Biases | Deliberate Cognitive Impartiality
- Logical Falacies | Deliberate Logical Integrity.
- Unconscious Incognizance | Deliberate Cognizance.
- Ideological Fundamentalism: The Fundamentalism Antidote.
Personal Philosophy Checklist
Key elements of The Drim Philosophy.
Personal Philosophy Checklist
- Universally Flawed Perception
- Opportunity Abundancy
- Agency.
- Leverage.
- Reverse-Engineering:
- Small-batch Provisionals:
- Constraint Focus:
- Respect and Civility (LUR):
- Horse for Courses:
- The Scarcity of Evil.
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How to Use this Website
Brief notes on how the site works and how to get the most from it.
How to Use this Website
Quick advice on how to get the most from this site:
- Layout and Navigation for desktop and mobile: it's simple - once you know how!
- Discover the dramatic improvement philosophy, framework, solutions and method.
- Learn the dramatic improvement framework.
- Apply the dramatic improvement solutions and method to your situation or thing.
- Find out about the site - so that you understand what it's got and what not!
Layout & Navigation
LAYOUT & NAVIGATION: DESKTOP
This site uses flashcards to make things quick and easy to understand and remember. Hover to flip them. Click to lock them. Hover for more...
LAYOUT & NAVIGATION: DESKTOP
- Hover over flashcards to flip them.
- Click flashcards or toggle buttons to lock them.
- Click the left toggle button a second time to re-enable the hover-effect.
Details
Details coming soon. 
Do stuff- Each page has a navigator at the top (and sometimes bottom) which works in a similar way.
LAYOUT & NAVIGATION: MOBILE
This site uses flashcards to make things quick and easy to understand and remember. The mobile layout is vertical. Tap to flip them.
LAYOUT & NAVIGATION: MOBILE
- Press flashcards or toggle buttons to flip them.
- Details
- Details coming soon.
- Do stuff
- Each page has a navigator at the top (and sometimes bottom) which works in a similar way.
How to benefit from the Content
DISCOVER
Discover first, before learning and applying, to get the biggest gain in the shortest time. Expect new insights to start emerging in the next few days - automatically.
DISCOVER
The first step is to review the top level of this website:
- The Illustrations (and the stories behind them) will give you sense of the sort of gains that are possible.
- The Testimonials (and the stories behind them) will help you accept that it's at least possible.
- The Drîm Framework (and, especially, the Drîm Dimensions) will give you the key building blocks.
- The Drîm Solutions are specific building blocks that flesh out the detail in a tangible way.
LEARN
Deliberately learn the key drîm patterns by reviewing them repeatedly until you can remember / predict the detail and what's coming next, reliably.
LEARN
predict > review > refine > apply > reflect
Predicting makes existing insights tangible and, in combination with Refining, reduces total learning load and provides attention-drawing contrasts to the brain.
Refining existing insights is way faster and more pleasant and effective than rote learning.
Applying fresh insights enriches and accelerates learning - if the application is simple and guided.
Reflecting integrates and embeds the new insights.
APPLY
Deliberately apply - and check that you're applying - the drîm framework, solutions and thinking to the challenges and opportunities in your world.
APPLY
Don't be surprised if you find drîm solutions and principles difficult to apply and implement, at first. Remember that dramatic improvement requires counter-inutive thinking and solutions!
Use feelings of resignation, despair or being stuck, confused, trapped or frustrated as triggers to follow the Drîm Method and browse the relevant parts of this site in search of the insight you need.
Follow the application and implementation steps rigorously - and check back periodically to make sure that you haven't forgoteen a key element.
About the Site
IT'S EVOLVING FAST!
This site is evolving very quickly. We have many dozens of features in the pipeline - and many hundreds of content items, too.
IT'S EVOLVING FAST!
>So please be patient with the current content and functionality - we're enhancing it as quickly as we can!
We're prioritising speed in getting the content out to you - at the expense of:
- Content quality, completeness and comprehensiveness and
- Application features and functionality.
So please make the best use of what is there that you can - and use the Engage Button to suggest enhancements and offer support.
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Drîm World Overview
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A bird's eye view of what Drîm World is & provides
Drîm World Overview
Drîm World is an online membership site & community for people who want to improve the world &/or their part of & in it dramatically.
Drîm World has:
- Five membership levels (for the moment).
- The Dramatic Improvement Solution Library.
- Five portals - which enable members to access the drîm framework for five primary purposes.
The current content and feature-set is but a fraction of what's in the pipeline - and it's evolving, progressing & getting populated fast.
In a Nutshell
...to help you make sense of it all!
In a Nutshell
Drîm World is a dramatic improvement solution for discovering, learning, applying, enhancing, capturing, collaborating on, mastering & disseminating dramatic improvement thinking & solutions.
It comprises a set of Drîm Portals that make it easy to do so. It's a work in progress, so is evolving rapidly.
Scan this page to prepare your mind for what's to come in the rest of this portal and beyond.
Read only the flashcards that appeal to you. Study only those that intrigue you.
Drîm World Overview Contents
A high-level contents overview .
Drîm World Overview Contents
- About Drîm World.
- The Drîm World Membership Levels.
- The Drîm World Portals.
- The Drîm World Pipeline.
- How to Drîm the Benefit.
- How to Get Support.
- How to Contribute.
- The Drîm World FAQ.
- Other Drîm Gateways.
- Join Drîm World.
What is Drîm?
Dramatic Improvement
What is Drîm?
Drîm (Dramatic improvement, pronounced "Dream") is a framework, practice & solution library for deliberately & systematically improving any situation or thing dramatically.
It's highly compatible with & easy to integrate with all other dramatic improvement frameworks & solutions, by definition & design.
Every single challenging situation can be improved dramtically - the more challenging, the more dramatic the improvement potential.
The Drîm World Portals
Five ways to access the drîm framework
The Drîm World Portals
The Drîm World Portals are part of the drîm solution for disseminating drîm. They tailor the framework to five primary activities:
- Drîm Discovery: Explore & understand drîm.
- Drîm Quest: Drîm challenging situations.
- Drîm Journey: Introduce drîm into your practice.
- Drîm Academy: Drîm training & certification.
- Drîm Community: Collaboration & support.
The Drîm World Membership Levels
Five ways to access the drîm framework
The Drîm World Membership Levels
Our Membership Levels provide tailored access:
- Anonymous Visitor: For checking it out ...
- Basic: Free plan with just the basics ...
- Drîm Enthusiast: If you find drîm appealing ....
- Drîm Individual: To help you drîm your role....
- Drîm Leader: To help you lead your people....
- Drîm Practitioner: To help you help your internal & external clients.
- Drîm Creators: To help you codify and disseminate your own drîm stuff.
The Drîm World Pipeline
A steady stream of upcoming content & features
The Drîm World Pipeline
Drîm World is a continuously evolving platform & will always be a work in progress.
The pipeline lets members see (& influence) what's coming up and when.
In due course, other members will be able to develop, introduce & publish theiir own drîm content.
How to Maximise the Benefit
A drîm solution to understanding, learning & using new approaches in a fraction of the normal time.
How to Maximise the Benefit
- Scan & browse only as deep as you need to.
- Use spaced repetition for exporation & learning.
- Expect to experience cognitive dissonance every single time you try to apply drîm to reality: it's perfectly natural and unavoidable.
- Focus on insight progress, not perfection & speed, not quality- quality will emerge iteratively.
- Review the the content, repeat the processes & refine the templates you've populated frequently, to accelerate neural network development & strengthening.
How to Get Drîm World Support
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From the Drîm Community, Practitioners & Prodsol
How to Get Drîm World Support
Help is escalated through four levels:
- Drîm Community Support: Voluntary support from other Drîm World Members.
- Drîm Practitioner Support: Committed Community Support from Drîm Practitioners.
- Prodsol Drîm Support: Committed reactive & proactive support.
- Paid Support Services: From Prodsol & other Practitioners.
We're working to reduce the need for support, over time.
How to Contribute
![The [[drîm world pictogram]] surrounded by lightbuls with [[drim pictogram]] spiralling inwards.](/images/content/prodsol-how-to-contribute-to-drim-world-pictogram.svg "The How to Contribute Pictogram")
Be active in the Drîm Community & shape your contribution for inclusion.
How to Contribute
- Helping others in the Drîm Comunity will hone your skill as well as advance the person you're helping's impact. Hot Support Tip
- The ability to submit content for inclusion will be introduced, in due course. In the interim, shape your content in a way that maps into the Drîm Portals.
- Give feedback & make enhancement suggestions - once you've made sense of what's here already.
- Spread the word to people who have the appetite, aptitude & influence for drîm.
The full set of Drîm Gateways
Drîm World|Training|Support|Tools|Team
The full set of Drîm Gateways
Drîm World is one of five Drîm Gateways:
- Drîm World.: Membership & community.
- Drîm Training.: Subset of Drîm World Academy.
- Drîm Support.: Get help from Prodsol, directly.
- The Drîm Tools.: Software & physical tools.
- Drîm Team.: Join us as we drîm our world.
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